Choosing A Mate
We all long for the perfect mate, someone you can see spending the rest of your life with, someone that enjoys doing the same things that you enjoy doing, your "soul mate". We try everything from blind dates, Internet chat rooms to looking in the want ad section of the newspaper, and the only thing we can find is frustration and loneliness. I believe there is some one for every one, and it is written in the stars. The following astrological signs can help guide you towards a future of happiness and fulfillment.
Zodiac signs are divided into four elements: fire, earth, air and water. Finding a mate within your element is a good match, however the best love match would be the elements of fire and air and the elements of earth and water.
Aquarius- January 20 - February 18 Element- Air
Aquarians have a hard time showing their feelings and prefer a mate that can stimulate them mentally and sexually. Aquarians thrive on attention, therefore concerning themselves so much with friends and acquaintances that they tend to neglect their relationship.
Pisces- February 19 - March 20 Element- Water
Pisceans are in love with being in love. They are the most romantic sign of the zodiac and are very caring and sensitive individuals. Pisceans need to be accepted as is. They love being put on a pedestal and desire anyone who is romantic in nature. Showing your love to a Piscean will not go unnoticed.
Aries- March 21 - April 19 Element- Fire
Arians are impulsive and energetic individuals, true optimists that rarely accept defeat. They tend to want a mate that is self-assured with a "take charge" attitude. Arians tend to rush into relationships, forming a new one right away when the old one ends.
Taurus- April 20 - May 20 Elements- Earth
Taureans are very committed and faithful individuals always showering their mate with gifts. They prefer a mate that turns them on sexually without having to be physically attractive. Taureans are materialistic and like to be surrounded by material beauty.
Gemini- May 21 - June 20 Element- Air
Gemini's do not like to be tied down and often change their minds. They tend to have a hard time making a decision and sticking with it. Gemini's like to play sexual "mind games" with their partners, and are considerably flirtatious.
Cancer- June 21 - July 22 Element- Water
Cancerians seek the fatherly-motherly type in a relationship. They are gentle, sensitive soles and look for an individual that can offer them security and protection. Cancerians can seem a bit possessive when they feel that their emotional security has been threatened.
Leo- July 23 - August 22 Element- Fire
A Leo prefers a mate that stands out in a crowd, one that turns heads when entering a room. They are loyal and faithful. Leos love to have a good time and like to make lovemaking fun. Leos are creative and entertaining and a joy to be around.
Virgo- August 23 - September 22 Element- Earth
Virgos are down to earth individuals as well and detailed oriented. They are dependable individuals and prefer a partner that is bright, has common sense, and not afraid to work hard. Virgos can be a little obsessive with cleanliness and will do anything to keep it that way.
Libra- September 23 - October 22 Element- Air
Librans are tactful and decisive, they are not afraid to speak their mind. Librans are creative and naturally artistic. Librans prefer a partner with good manners and has the ability to get along with others. Libras tend to be selfish and can show signs of jealousy and unwillingness to be fair.
Scorpio- October 23 - November 21 Element- Water
Scorpios are intensely passionate individuals. If the relationship with the Scorpio is sexually satisfying they are loyal, however if the fire starts to smolder, they may look elsewhere. Scorpios do not like to rush into a relationship. They like to take the time and build it into something meaningful and only open their hearts to an intimate few.
Sagittarius- November 22 - December 21 Element- Fire
Sagittarians are goal oriented and very optimistic and always willing to help when needed. Sagittarians enjoy their freedom and prefer a mate that does not smother them with too much love and togetherness.
Capricorn- December 22 - January 19 Element- Earth
Capricorns are very careful about choosing a mate. They will not marry until they can be sure that the relationship will be secure. Capricorns are faithful and trusting lovers, however they can at times seem emotionally cold. Capricorns are ambitious, steadfast and worry free. If you need a shoulder to lean on, a Capricorn is the one.